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damn you happy married people!

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meR
10-01-2003
05:48 AM ET (US)
Hey Yes grrl radio does rock!
play neopets
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Bonnie Burton
09-30-2003
03:03 PM ET (US)
actually i don't know what happened specifically, I just know he lost interest... which is pretty damn sad in itself...
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beezo the eBay guy
09-30-2003
02:41 PM ET (US)
Amen to being picky and solo. I think people need to learn to utilize the time they have while single. No obligations can be a beautiful thing. ;)
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Debbie Slobe (Fellner)
09-30-2003
12:15 PM ET (US)
Bonnie, it sounds more to me that you discovered that he was possibly cheating on you. You are certainly not at fault for that. There is no excuse for cheating.
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Bonnie Burton
09-27-2003
03:53 PM ET (US)
>
> So when you read his email, what did you discover?
> I did that once and I discovered that he was planning on moving
> out while I was at work one day. So I'm glad I read it!


I discovered that because I was so scared of losing him, I managed to scare him in the direction of someone cooler...

i had it coming I suppose...
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Bonnie Burton
09-27-2003
03:20 PM ET (US)
THanks Deb!

Nah, I don't hate ya... I'm just way jealous of all the happy, joyous couples out there. Now that I'm single again I'm JUST figuring out what I want and what kind of person I want to share myself with... guess that means I'm either going to be extremely picky or solo for a long time. Either way I'll be fine. I'm just whiny right now... ;-)
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Debbie Slobe (Fellner)
09-26-2003
06:35 PM ET (US)
Hey Bonnie it's good to see you're blogging again. I missed it. Don't hate me because I'm married and happy. It took Brian and I more than 10 years to get where we are today. Remember that other clod I was dating when we were roommies? I thought I loved him. We all do stupid things in the name of 'love', don't beat yourself up. The real challenge is recognizing selfless, bouying, honest, self-bettering love, which is as rare as a Hawaiian Crow (three pairs left in the world. Yes I am a bird geek.). Chin up sport. Life is good with or without a man in your life.
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Ricochet Rabbit
09-25-2003
09:19 PM ET (US)
Hey, I just wanted to tell you that I *love* your radio station. It is simply the one thing I have on *all* the time. Anyway, it looks like you and I have similar interests. If you want, check out my blog. I also have a crappy website devoted to my writings.

With that said, thank you for the great music.
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Laura
09-25-2003
04:56 AM ET (US)
Helloo, you've been away for aaages, I had nothing new to read online! Glad you're back and I sympathize totally with the boy/f thing. Haha, and guess what I read last year to make light of the loveofmylife dumping me after nearly two years? Your bloody Relationship column thingys. They helped a bit. And after a whole year we're back together. If it's space he wanted just give it to him (for a looooong while) and mebbes he'll miss you so much he'll realise. I dunno. Good luck, and please don't sod off for that long again!
Lotsa love & other indoor sports,
Buh-bye
 Laura
 xxxxxx
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Marian
09-24-2003
04:21 PM ET (US)
So when you read his email, what did you discover?
I did that once and I discovered that he was planning on moving out while I was at work one day. So I'm glad I read it!
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jeff in chicago
09-24-2003
02:33 AM ET (US)
Oh! Thank you for coming back to us!! I, for one, missed you.
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jeff in chicago
09-24-2003
02:31 AM ET (US)
I think jealousy isn't a bad thing here...from where I stand it means you still want something and maybe even have some dreams left in there somewhere. Be worried when those are gone. Its a pity the world doesn't do exactly as we want it to, but then again, that may be kinda dull. Hang in there!!! It'll get better, I promise.

P.S. I love the Non-Expert: Broken Heart Link. I think I too will work on memorizing it.
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bonnie burtonPerson was signed in when posted
09-24-2003
01:40 AM ET (US)
ugh... nah i don't damn you. i'm just a jealous putz.