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damn you happy married people!

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05:48 AM ET (US)
Hey Yes grrl radio does rock!
play neopets
Bonnie Burton
03:03 PM ET (US)
actually i don't know what happened specifically, I just know he lost interest... which is pretty damn sad in itself...
beezo the eBay guy
02:41 PM ET (US)
Amen to being picky and solo. I think people need to learn to utilize the time they have while single. No obligations can be a beautiful thing. ;)
Debbie Slobe (Fellner)
12:15 PM ET (US)
Bonnie, it sounds more to me that you discovered that he was possibly cheating on you. You are certainly not at fault for that. There is no excuse for cheating.
Bonnie Burton
03:53 PM ET (US)
> So when you read his email, what did you discover?
> I did that once and I discovered that he was planning on moving
> out while I was at work one day. So I'm glad I read it!

I discovered that because I was so scared of losing him, I managed to scare him in the direction of someone cooler...

i had it coming I suppose...
Bonnie Burton
03:20 PM ET (US)
THanks Deb!

Nah, I don't hate ya... I'm just way jealous of all the happy, joyous couples out there. Now that I'm single again I'm JUST figuring out what I want and what kind of person I want to share myself with... guess that means I'm either going to be extremely picky or solo for a long time. Either way I'll be fine. I'm just whiny right now... ;-)
Debbie Slobe (Fellner)
06:35 PM ET (US)
Hey Bonnie it's good to see you're blogging again. I missed it. Don't hate me because I'm married and happy. It took Brian and I more than 10 years to get where we are today. Remember that other clod I was dating when we were roommies? I thought I loved him. We all do stupid things in the name of 'love', don't beat yourself up. The real challenge is recognizing selfless, bouying, honest, self-bettering love, which is as rare as a Hawaiian Crow (three pairs left in the world. Yes I am a bird geek.). Chin up sport. Life is good with or without a man in your life.
Ricochet Rabbit
09:19 PM ET (US)
Hey, I just wanted to tell you that I *love* your radio station. It is simply the one thing I have on *all* the time. Anyway, it looks like you and I have similar interests. If you want, check out my blog. I also have a crappy website devoted to my writings.

With that said, thank you for the great music.
04:56 AM ET (US)
Helloo, you've been away for aaages, I had nothing new to read online! Glad you're back and I sympathize totally with the boy/f thing. Haha, and guess what I read last year to make light of the loveofmylife dumping me after nearly two years? Your bloody Relationship column thingys. They helped a bit. And after a whole year we're back together. If it's space he wanted just give it to him (for a looooong while) and mebbes he'll miss you so much he'll realise. I dunno. Good luck, and please don't sod off for that long again!
Lotsa love & other indoor sports,
04:21 PM ET (US)
So when you read his email, what did you discover?
I did that once and I discovered that he was planning on moving out while I was at work one day. So I'm glad I read it!
jeff in chicago
02:33 AM ET (US)
Oh! Thank you for coming back to us!! I, for one, missed you.
jeff in chicago
02:31 AM ET (US)
I think jealousy isn't a bad thing here...from where I stand it means you still want something and maybe even have some dreams left in there somewhere. Be worried when those are gone. Its a pity the world doesn't do exactly as we want it to, but then again, that may be kinda dull. Hang in there!!! It'll get better, I promise.

P.S. I love the Non-Expert: Broken Heart Link. I think I too will work on memorizing it.
bonnie burtonPerson was signed in when posted
01:40 AM ET (US)
ugh... nah i don't damn you. i'm just a jealous putz.