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This topic appears to be dead, but I nonetheless have my two cents to put in... I was a student at this program. To say that it is comparable to a prison is ridiculous for those who said it. And now, the kids who get sent there are no longer rich.. many of the kids are there because their parents recieved loans, and a greater majority are there due to being court ordered... When asked if I would rather go to jail or Tranquility Bay, I find it debateable, but I think that jail would win.. why? well, jail doesn't brainwash you with dozens of seminars and audio tapes while you eat, videos inbetween class, "reflections" turned in each night with how you plan to change in accordane with the lessons of the tape.. I spent several years of my life there, and I have to say it is NOT a tropical paradise, it is a nightmare. The restraining practices get taken out of hand and out of the codebook, and you are liable to get restrained easier if the staff doesn't like you. The same goes for consequences.. it's all about ass kissing. Then, most of the kids I have spoken to since I have returned home are relapsing.. from meth addicts to pregnant teens, everyone seems to crash sooner or later. and these are GRADUATES... graduates of the nice program that helps you forget who you are... people will change when they are ready, not when they are forced, and TB forces you to change.. It leaves you when you return unable to cope with society. There is no contact to the outside world except weeekly letters you may write only to your parents, who get a pamphlet on all the ways you could "manipulate" (i.e. tell the truth about what goes on).. Everything is censored, and not even music is allowed, unless its a monthly "seminar" during a "process".
Also, the place is most usually inequipt to deal with bulimics and anorexics, I saw many girls that continued with their bulimia and anorexia while they were there... the "counseling" is a joke, and the only times you are really allowed to talk are in group therapy, where you must tirade about how horrible you were, share your deepest secrets, and prove how much you have changed. Then the students get called on to give you advice, being praised for the ruder they are to you... There is often no water to even shower, so you have to shower in the buckets that they wash floors with, given only 5 to 7 minutes to do so as well as get dressed, even if you are on your menstrual cycle.. Roaches are often seen crawling in the tables of the dining area.. the food is limited and the meat is mostly fat and undercooked rice with a small piece of rotten fruit...
The money goes to the hounds that run it, not to the welfare of the students, so get it straight, its hell, and I've only begun to scratch the surface...
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Edited by author 07-04-2003 07:31 PM
Clearly the tactics used by this concentration camp for kids are unethical (and if you believe in such a thing, immoral).
Assuming it were possible, would it still be unethical to brainwash kids to be polite sheep if you didn't use physical and emotional torture? (LoveGravy, no matter what end may be derived from it, tossing a human being into a gulag is unacceptable behavior-- american prisons are far more considerate of basic human rights than this "school," and that's not saying much)
I think one of the essential questions that separates those who would consider using such a program from those that wouldn't is whether you support the ultimate goal or not, that being a child well suited to the rote memorization, rule-following nature of modern schooling, fully preparing your child for the grim realities of adult life as a bureaucrat or middle manager, capable of quickly and efficiently carrying out whatever instructions it is given, under the premise that it is those characteristics that will ensure "success" in life. It is clear that this is the reality that LoveGravy exists in, along with the parents of those poor unfortunate children, locked in their cells.
I believe differently. I believe that it is creative spark, intellectual and interpersonal openness, combined with the desire for self-improvement and life-long learning, an attitude of platonic (that is to say, universal or christian) love towards mankind, and an understanding that we each create our own reality for better or for worse each moment that will provide a child with the best grounding for happiness throughout life, with the side benefit of that all-important "success".
Indeed, it is the symbol of the sickness in our culture that causes "solutions" like these to come up. Misguided priorities. A basic ignorance of the fundamental truth of our reality. School environments based on antiquated notions of what it means to be human, and what is good for a child. Parents who can't be bothered. Ideas about drugs and sex that have no basis in reality. Drugs and sex, even in teenagers is not a bad thing. That's reality. What's bad is teens who don't talk to their parents and have so little good in their lives that they feel abandoned and lonely, like they have no beliefs to hang their lives on. They create belief structures out of the strife and hardship around them, they adopt the hard-luck attitude about life from what people will take them in emotionally, and they abuse their lives over it, with sex and drugs as tools for that purpose. I will stand to say that used properly, both casual sex and casual drug use is not a bad thing. In fact, it has been a good thing in my life, and is for many other people as well.
What these kids need is a new education system. They need new belief structures in their parents. They need a new government. They need good examples. They need opportunities. Not prison.
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Regarding the differences between torture and mutilation versus invasive surgery (as brought up by LoveGravy in /m19), members of the medical profession take an oath, usually a form of the Oath of Hippocrates, vowing, in lay terms, to "first, do no harm". In America, the American Medical Association has a code of ethics which its members must adhere by. Transgressions against the code of ethics are punishable under law. Malpractice is also a widely understood concept in developed countries and in modern medicine. The Observer article, this QT discussion board, and the survior discussion board are all fantastic. I think it's great we have these modes of communication. For myself, I'm reminded of a great quote (the following) for which, in part, three students were executed: "We grew up in a state in which all free expression of opinion is unscrupulously suppressed. The Hitler Youth, the SA, the SS have tried to drug us, to revolutionize us, to regiment us in the most promising young years of our lives. 'Philosophical training' is the name given to the despicable method by which our budding intellectual development is muffled in a fog of empty phrases. A system of selection of leaders at once unimaginably devilish and narrow-minded trains up its future party bigwigs in the 'Castles of the Knightly Order' to become Godless,impudent, and conscienceless exploiters and executioners - blind, stupid hangers-on of the Fuhrer. We 'Intellectual Workers' are the ones who should put obstacles in the path of this caste of overlords. Soldiers at the front are regimented like schoolboys by student leaders and trainees for the post of Gauleiter, and the lewd jokes of the Gauleiters insult the honor of the women students. German women students at the university in Munich have given a dignified reply to the besmirching of their honor, and German students have defended the women in the universities and have stood firm.... That is a beginning of the struggle for our free self-determination - without which intellectual and spiritual values cannot be created. We thank the brave comrades, both men and women, who have set us brilliant examples." -- From "Leaflet Six" of The White Rose (see http://www.jlrweb.com/whiterose/)
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That's wonderfully creepy, greg.org.
In the TV movie expose, the Robert Lichfield character will be named "Howard Wraithheart."
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07-03-2003 11:54 PM ET (US)
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On weekends they get to watch reruns of "The Prisoner."
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The WWASP, all the "affiliated" schools, the kidnapping thugs, the recruiting and intake companies, and a series of purportedly independent Teens in Crisis websites are all part of the same, elaborate, privately owned network. http://www.isaccorp.com/wwasp/wwasp.htmlA guy named Robert Lichfield is at the center of it; he founded Teen Help, inc., which is the underpinning of WWASP. This whole thing is a deceptive, exploitative web, run by a few extended families in small towns in southern Utah. Charming. Lichfield is one of the largest individual donors to the Republican party, giving over $300K to state and national parties and (through his relatives and employees) to several congressional campaigns. Chief among these is a UT state senator who could've had some legislative or regulatory influence over Teen Help or WWASP, John Swallow. look up Lichfield at http://www.opensecrets.org
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I googled around for some more information and found this transcript from a case where a cousin was fighting to get a 14 year old released from Tranquility Bay against the wishes of the kid's father. There's credible, detailed testimony from three former inmates, two of whom successfully completed the program, but still condemn it. It's good reading from as close to firsthand sources as we're likely to get.
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i'm curious about escape. the article didn't mention any of the children escaping. is the staff to inmate ration just so large that it's impossible? is there barbed wire? are the guards armed? i just can't see myself there without attempting escape.
the older kids have a chance, i guess. if i were 17, i'd probably just opt for OP for a year rather than let them break me. i feel so sorry for the younger kids though. well, i feel sorry for all of the kids, actually.
except the one who is willingly staying so she can get her parents' money. boy is she earning that the hard way.
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Edited by author 07-03-2003 05:18 PM
Something else, as well. When we as a society send someone to prison, it is (usually) as the result of a trial in front of a judge, usually with a jury, not to mention someone to speak in the accused's defense. According to the article, parents sign away 49% of their custody rights to WWASP. There is no due process for the child, no way for them to object. Their "parent" can do whatever they want to them. Since they are held incommunicado, they cannot even petition a court for emancipation. I do not doubt that there are some seriously mental children there, who could be said to be a danger to themselves and others. It may even help some children become "productive members of society." Nonetheless, they remain citizens, entitled to the same protections as anyone else. If they are criminals, there is a criminal justice system, imperfect as it is, to deal with it. If they are not criminals, then they are being detained against their will for no good reason. The question boils down to, do people under age 18 have rights? I believe they do; some of the more totalitarian members of this discussion would seem to disagree.
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Oh, I'm sure "LoveGravy" is just trolling, but for any other readers passing through who might wonder if these places "aren't so bad after all", I would urge them to really look into what these places are doing.
They would be flat-out illegal in this country -- they exist only by locating in remote island locations with minimum standards for such facilities. Similar institutions elsewhere -- america, or the czech republic, for instance -- have been shut down, for a variety of reasons, ranging from unsanitary conditions to allegations of sexual abuse.
The example of a chiropodist or surgeon is invalid for a number of reasons. Medical professionals undergo extensive training, have to be strictly licensed, are subject to oversight with clearly established complaints procedures, and are providing medical services that are scientifically understood to be beneficial.
These "facilities" are owned, managed and staffed entirely by unqualified, untrained individuals with no oversight whatsoever. All complaints are dismissed out-of-hand by the facility owners as "manipulations" (if filed by the child) or "disagreements between divorcees" (in the case of complaints from the parents) -- fortunately the local authorities have often disagreed with this analysis.
And their methods, far from being in accordance with scientific medical practice -- which, admittedly, undergoes revision as our knowledge advances -- is considered to be abusive, is in contravention of the United Nations Rights of the Child, and would in fact be illegal in most western countries even if applied to convicted murderers and rapists. To apply them to minors whose "crimes" consist of such things as poor grades, mouthing off, or dating someone their parents disapprove of, is simply obscene.
"Tough love" is one thing. This is not "tough love". This is abuse of children, done in the name of profit.
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LoveGravy, have you ever encountered an authoritarian or brutal "solution" you haven't loved? Not on this board, far as I remember.
As far as "success rate", castration, lobotomy, and amputation of limbs are all quite successful in improving the manageability of some people. Wrong question.
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Anyway, if this place is so horrible, why hasn't a disgruntled former student raised a private army, assaulted the place, and executed the staff? Or at least used that as the plot for a movie?It's been done.
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Gravy, the success rate is beside the point. A 'school' that treats its inmate wih cruelty and mind control cannot, ipso facto, have any successes. Its fundamental tenets violate the U.N. charter of human rights.
The bottom line of the whole thing in my mind is that children are chattel. With only a few exceptions for brute physical cruelty and/or neglect, parents can do what they like with their children. The children have no recourse whatever. As a veteran of some years of working with children I can report that it is the rare adult who puts the needs of his/her children before his own desires. They don't BELIEVE they're doing this, but the results prove they are. It carries over from small things like putting t.v.s in kids' rooms to keep them occupied to shuffling a child off to a grandparent when the child isn't convenient. As far as I can tell, money doesn't have much to do with good or bad parenting.
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I also wonder how much of this is just PR...
Like in the 50's when horror movies would advertise having "Licenced medical professionals in the theater to tend to those who become overcome with freight". I mean, if you send a kid to Military School, he/she KNOWS they won't do anything illegal to them, so this place tries to look as sinister as possible to say "Anything can happen!". The guy who owns the place probably paid the guy to write this article knowing it will help the reputation of the place.
I had classmates in highschool that would get in trouble and tell the teacher "You can't do anything! What you gonna do, hit me? I know better". Let them think this place WILL hurt you, and maybe they will listen.
Anyway, I worked as a guard in a similar short-term internment camp for rich kids. The title of the place was "Oakbrook Swim Club" and my title was "Life Guard". Parents would dump off all of their kids, then go shopping. Most of the kids were ill behaved, and when I did punish one of them for repeatedly doing something dangerous (punishment usually limited to sitting out for a period of time), the parents would generally come over and yell at me when they found out about it. The kids then would behave worse, thinking that the rules don't apply to them. I bet some of them end up in this place.
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Again, someone show me the success rate of this place compared to other programs before I give it a "Good" or "Bad" stamp.
You compare it to "Manchurian Candidate PoW camps", but that's not quite fair. If I said "They took a knife and slit his chest open, then used a metal device to split the ribs open, while the person was still alive!!!" you could easily confuse that discription between open heart surgery and some Thai torture session, but the difference, obviously, is WHY they are doing it.
If the place wasn't turning out success stories, why would parents pay for it? Wouldn't it be cheaper to send them somewhere else?
Watch a Chiropractor work sometime and tell me that many of his moves aren't exactly the same as you'd see in a torture session. Extreme? Sure. But I'm not ready to call in the special forces just yet.
If you have spoiled kids with YEARS of parents teaching them that their actions do not have consequences, how do you un-program them in a nice way? I still blame the parents for the kids being this way (for the most part).
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The descriptions of Tranquility Bay make it clear that this is an institution that *far exceeds* the harshness of treatment and surveillance in prison, and also puts *much* less effort into rehabilitation (the educational curriculum is virtually nonexistant, and accredited teachers are not on hand), or on preparation for the real world, but rather on a creepy, Werner Erhardt-style brainwashing that is the mainstay of cults and Manchurian Candidate PoW camps.
As to the behavior of the kids, at least some of the kids in the article are apparently there because they're anorexic, or because they are afflicted with other mental illnesses, whose best-practices-for-treatment certainly do not include beatings, brainwashing, verbal abuse, and prolonged isolation and immobilization.
I don't think there's anyone among us who hasn't encountered people who were out of control, careening towards an early grave or some other terrible fate. I have an ex-girlfriend who overdosed on heroin in her early 20s and whose ashes were buried in the Mount Pleasant Cemetary when I was 23. Clearly, she had problems. Clearly, her being dead is not preferable to her being alive.
But I don't believe that third-world internment and brainwashing camps, run at a substantial profit, where the very wealthy are invited to send their children, far from the scrutiny of the US government's educational and penal regulators, present any kind of meaningful solution to this.
It's important not to paint this as either being in favor of taking a firm hand in the rearing of children engaged in self-destructive behavior or a total laissez-faire approach. My issue is with *this specific* style form of institutional disciplining, not with the *idea* of discipline.
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Yeah, some asshat parent will ship off their kids for putting empty milk containers back into the fridge, but I'd like to think they are the minority.
If, as a parent, the choice came down to either letting the kid die or spend life in prison, or send him to this place, I'd send him there.
The problem with parents, I agree, is that they don't want to take ANY responsibility for raising their kids. If the kid turns out great, it was all of their great parenting. If the kid shoots up a school, it was rock music, or video games. Kids simply aren't given the love that they would have received if a parent stayed home with them, and they are also not given the discipline either.
If a parent does a crappy job teaching their kid right from wrong, social from antisocial behaviour, etc. I don't think a program like this is such a bad idea. Is it brainwashing? You bet! Just as positive reinforcement is brainwashing, just requires more time. When the lesson is urgent and the timeframe to learn it is short, programs like this seem to work.
Anyway, I wouldn't generalize all of the parents with children in this program as being neglectful or lazy. The boy on the 20/20 show suffered brain damage, and the program used to cure him was VERY much like this, and seemed to work. The boy was about 10 years old and the parents could BARELY handle him, physically and emotionally, I cannot imagine they could have done it if the boy was 13 or older.
Sure, the place SUCKS. So does open heart surgery. Sometimes bad things lead to good results. Again, I didn't see any methods discussed that I haven't seen in hospitals and prisons. The 20/20 episode I mention was on on Monday, I think. Watch it and you'll see that the methods used to cure the boy mirror what's going on here.
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LoveGravy ( /m12), this is not my first time reading about Tranquility Bay. It is not a pleasant place. I don't think these are just kids who talk too much in class, or ring doorbells and run away. I think these are the kids who people TRULY fear will kill someone if something doesn't change soon.
I'm all for giving killers big loving hugs and having them instantly change into peaceful, productive members of society. It just doesn't happen that way very often.
This camp doesn't sound all that different than jail, except that it allows the inmate to leave once they are rehabilitated, no earlier, no later. Isn't that what we WANT from jail?
Not all the kids there have done anything significant. Ever have to deal with raising step kids? It is a lot of work, the children don't have an established relationship with the new parent, typically feel that the newcomer is displacing their position, changing things for the worse, has no authority over them, etc. etc. Now consider this case at Tranquility Bay: http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/t...tranquility_bay.aspHere's a site with the court testimony: http://fornits.com/anonanon/docs/wwasp/toc.htmAnd for your last point: isn't rehabilitation what we want from prisons? Well, it is what I want. I suspect 'we' as a society are less particular, since we have things like three-strikes laws that assume rehabilitation is not possible, and since there is great disparity in the severity of punishments for similar but slightly different crimes. (Cf drug possesion by drug type.) Then there is also the question of how rehabilitation is achieved. I'm a follower of Foucault in the belief that how we treat our prisoners tells the world what we think of the soul. I recommend Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prisonby Foucault for further reading.
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For a real creep-out, read some of the survivor discussion boards, like http://www.voy.com/58570/Kids who are looking for others who went through their program (there are many besides Tranquility Bay) to share their experiences with, kids worried about siblings who were taken away early that morning looking for information, parents wondering if the stories are true, other parents and 'successful graduates' dismissing all the attempts at 'manipulation'. Heartbreaking.
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Point one is that there is an epidemic of poor parenting among my peers (the 1945-1960 cohort), leading to our children having an epidemic of drug and alcohol addiction, anti-social behavior, and worse. This in turn lead to the development of the boot camps and wilderness therapy endeavors as referenced in the article. Point two is that there's always been a demand for "save my kid from himself (or herself)". It used to be military-style boarding schools for boys, and (usually) strict religious-based boarding schools for girls. These fell out of fashion in the seventies and most are out of business, as the co-ed wilderness experience arose, to be followed by the boot camp phenomenon. Point three is that some of the behaviors (such as eating disorders and self-mutilation) seem to be almost contagious. It's hard to describe, but until you have seen a wave of anorexia (for example) spread through a middle school, affecting kids from strong families as well as kids from troubled homes, it is hard to believe. Point four is humility. Just because you have a strong relationship with your kid does not GUARANTEE that said kid won't try drugs, get addicted, or start acting in a hateful, destructive manner. Sometimes strong intervention is the difference between life and death for a child. You have no idea of the heartbreak a drug-addicted child (say a 14 year old) can cause. Let's say the 14 year old is a graduate of one or more 28-day residential programs--then what do you do? How do you protect the younger children (if any) from their siblings behavior? So not every kid in these programs is there for no reason . Point four is, don't confuse Outward Bound http://www.outwardbound.com/history.htmlor The National Outdoor Leadership School http://www.nols.edu/about/history/two respected and well-extablished outdoor educational institutions, with boot camps or wilderness therapy programs (although the wilderness therapy programs arouse out of the Outward Bound phenomenon, they are now separate.) Here's an article on Wilderness Therapy Programs Vs Wilderness Boot Camps http://www.wilderness-therapy.org/Wilderness/WildernessVsBoot.htmthis seems to be a good site for parents considering what to do with a kid who is in trouble. http://www.educationoptions.org/programs/This too seems to be a good site, including the following: Crisis Intervention For Teenagers - A Family Guide "Teenagers may be remorseful when they get into real trouble. On the other hand, they may feel so entitled and invulnerable that they will openly defy their parents and even law enforcement." http://www.educationoptions.org/programs/a...ventionForTeens.htm
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I don't often post, but I have to on this one.
Most Children sent to places like this aren't "acting as if they were individuals, with rights of their own". They are acting as if they can do anything that they want with no consequences to their actions. This is pretty common in America today and is often reinforced by psycologists.
What places like Tranquility Bay are trying to teach the kids is that if they do good and act as productive members of society, they will have good things happen to them. If they do bad, they will have bad things happen to them and they helped bring it down on them. Some kids just have a hard time accepting that fact. If they don't get it drilled into their heads, then they end up blaming everyone else for all of their problems.
Look at how sue-happy and blame-happy the USA has become. "Oh, I hurt myself by misusing this tool. It can't be my fault. I'll blame the manufacturer." "I had unprotected sex and now I'm pregnant. It's not my fault. I'll just get an abortion and kill the fetus." "I never study or listen in class but I should get better grades. It's my teacher's fault."
I'm not saying that it's not the parents fault either, they probably needed to teach their kids some values before everything got out of hand. These places are hopefully a last resort. It is sad that parents are sending their kids to them for things like "sassing."
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I don't think these are just kids who talk too much in class, or ring doorbells and run away. I think these are the kids who people TRULY fear will kill someone if something doesn't change soon.
I'm all for giving killers big loving hugs and having them instantly change into peaceful, productive members of society. It just doesn't happen that way very often.
This camp doesn't sound all that different than jail, except that it allows the inmate to leave once they are rehabilitated, no earlier, no later. Isn't that what we WANT from jail?
If you cannot afford this school, you can always put boot to butt and give the kid the heave-ho out onto the streets. That's what happens to most kids who cannot be controlled. Just go to any jail and ask around, you'll find LOTS of them there, sucking in that $40,000/year in TAXPAYER money for "rehabilitation", not to mention the victims left in their wake.
Again, I don't think this place is for kids who got drunk at a party and wrecked daddy's car, it's for serious problem children. If this place is a last resort, then GREAT, I'm all for it, it's better than sucking up tax money to keep them in jail where they are sodomized by the other inmates and generally will return within a year of being released.
I'm just very interested in the success rate of this place. Hard to label it "good" or "bad" if we don't know the results.
Take this reporter and drop him into a mental institution and let him write objectively about it. Or a prison. Or a military academy. All of these places are options, and all are equally shocking.
I'm telling you that WITHOUT HESITATION I'd choose this place over being soddomized in a public prison.
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If you had told me before I had read this that there were private jails for well-off people to send their reputed hellions to, I would have expressed disbelief. But it makes sense, in a twisted sort of way. After all, having a teen who gets in trouble with the law can be an embarassment to one's reputation. Sending them away to one of the nine facilities that WWASP (how appropriate!) operates allows one to tell one's friends and neighbors that your child is at an exclusive private school. Sure, they won't be able to have fun, or date, or socialize, but they blew their chances of that by acting as if they were individuals, with rights of their own. So what if they hate you for the rest of their lives. They should have known better than to do the things they did. Maybe this method will become more popular, and cults/affinity groups can open their own schools for troubled teens. Think of the possibilities: you have a bunch of energetic teens, you can train them any way you want, and their parents will pay beaucoups for the privilege! Anyway, if this place is so horrible, why hasn't a disgruntled former student raised a private army, assaulted the place, and executed the staff? Or at least used that as the plot for a movie? Seriously, though, didn't people just use to send their brats to military school? Wouldn't that be a good way to make sure they have a career? You know, if you're worried about job security for your kids?
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07-03-2003 12:25 PM ET (US)
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Wow, DaveW, bitter much?
What about the kids from POOR families? I guess the prison system works fine for them.
Wealthly people might send their kids here as a last resort, but what do poor parents do? They just kick their kids out on the street. I guess you find that BETTER?
Funny how being wealthy has become a crime to some people.
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07-03-2003 12:18 PM ET (US)
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Why bitch about the place? It's the "parents" who make it happen. Removing the kids from these parents completely and forever would almost certainly do more good than this "school" will ever do. Either "incorrigible" kids have diagnosible mental illness, in which case they need treatment, or they have abusive/evil parents, in which case the parents need to be dealt with (oops, I forgot: they're rich and this is America). In either case, the "school" is irrelevant.
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07-03-2003 12:00 PM ET (US)
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In the 1980s, I knew quite a few kids whose parents simply couldn't deal with their "punk" outlook and sent them to private rehab and/or mental hospital programs... until the insurance ran out. I vaguely remember that a kid somewhere even created a 'zine about this phenomenon.
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07-03-2003 11:54 AM ET (US)
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Just to stir the pot:
What's the success rate of the place? What's the success rate of "guidance and education"?
20/20 just did an interesting piece on a method of rehabilitating troubled kids. The parents could NEVER be more than 3' away. The kids room is stripped bare. He's not allowed to see friends. If the kid loses his temper, the parents put him in a submission hold for 5 minutes after the kid stops struggling (sometimes taking several HOURS before the kid stops).
The kid they followed wasn't able to be rehabilitated by any other method, but 6 months of this and he was a whole new person.
So the question is:
Which is MORE cruel: Tough but effective cure, or ineffective but nice cures that pretty much guarantee a life in jail plus dozens of victims in their wake?
It's pretty obvious that the prison system doesn't work, so what's the answer?
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07-03-2003 11:43 AM ET (US)
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Edited by author 07-03-2003 11:44 AM
daq said: I'm done now. I must go ponder this question and organize the guerrilla's for another raid on the "school". We shall liberate these wretches like George Bush liberated Iraq. With the barrel of a gun and a jack boot on the neck of the opressed people.... er, I mean on the necks of the opressors. Or something....
daq, I know (think) you're joking here, but if I had the money and the werewithal, I'd be holding the director of that little 'institution' in the sights of an assault rifle while the kids burned the place to the ground and salted the earth it stood on. Yeah, there are some troubled kids, but they need guidance and education, not the mental torture of Tranquility. I wonder if some sort of law is being broken here? Or if not, how we could convince our respective senators or congressmen and women that this should be the case?
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07-03-2003 11:20 AM ET (US)
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I heard about this a few weeks ago on NPR, either on Morning Edition or on All Things Considered (yes, I listen to those shows and I really to feel that I have taken in things, all things considered).
Welcome to the new American school of parenting. If you aren't string enough or willing to face up to the resposibility of raising your children, and you have enough money, just send them off to a school where they will be brainwashed and turned into fine upstanding psychopaths.
Institutionalization of youth will only lead to repressed emotion and cause severe mental scarring to those who are subjected to the wills of "adults". These kinds of arrogant, fool-hardy, games of domination are going to backfire. The only regretable thing is that those who are initiating these acts will not be around to fall prey to thier folly. It will be generations before this will be seen as another "Boys from Brazil" or another Nazi School for Arian boys. And that's all this is. Beat them into submission, force dogmatic and automatic survival responses out of them, and call them "cured". It didn't work for treating mentally ill patients in the 1950's and 1960's, it won't work for kids who just need proper role models and guidance from actual adults.
I was raised by my parents, my community, and my relatives. Not television, not the latest pop star. I know what is considered "right" and what is considered "taboo" by our society. Notice I didn't say "wrong". Right and wrong have very limited connotations. Mainly because the shift almost daily. But that's another topic to rant about another time.
I'm done now. I must go ponder this question and organize the guerrilla's for another raid on the "school". We shall liberate these wretches like George Bush liberated Iraq. With the barrel of a gun and a jack boot on the neck of the opressed people.... er, I mean on the necks of the opressors. Or something....
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07-03-2003 11:18 AM ET (US)
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This is the second time I've read about this horrible place. In fact 'No More Cocoons' by Jello Biafra talked about something similar happening to someone he knew. From the descriptions in the article, these sound like human rights abuses. The parents seem relieved, though, to have their kids turned into zombies out of sight. I predict a collection of lawsuits twenty years from now.
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07-03-2003 10:38 AM ET (US)
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What is shocking is not that such a place exists, but that there are parents willing to spend $25,000 - $40,000 to send their own kids to such a place.
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07-03-2003 10:27 AM ET (US)
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The sassing does have to stop though. Sassing inevitably leads to back-talk.
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07-03-2003 10:20 AM ET (US)
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Anyone else reminded of the Sunlight Home in The Talisman?
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