Cory,
Britt Blaser turned me onto your question since it is right in line with the kinds of things I investigate and answer for people on a new service of my
Mac Net Journal site called AskMNJ? I did a little digging around and found:
1) Apple's docs say you cannot be connected to a wireless network and then share that connection with others using the Software Base Station built into OS X 10.2.x.
2) It looks like you could however use
IPNetShareX (free) or its shareware cousin IPNetShareX Pro ($25) from Sustainable Networks, the same folks who make the IPNetRouter software you used for this kind of situation under Mac OS 9.x. IPNetShareX provides a GUI for access the gNat capabilities of Mac OS X. Of course, I am sure you could dig around in OS X and find the Unix commands to work directly with gNat.
3) It would probably also work to buy a second Wi-Fi PC Card to give a second interface to help share the connection.
All of these assume that what you are trying to do is, for instance, to be able to go to Starbucks and log onto your T-Mobile account and then share that wireless connection with your friend who doesn't already have his own T-Mobile account set up. Is this what you are talking about?