They won't hop off in disgust BlueArmy. They're just as self-conscious as you are about their breasts or bum. To coin an old cliche 'it's not how big it is it's what you do with it that counts' and this really is good advice. However, first of all try not to think about it. The chances are if you're permanently thinking about your 'man bat' as you put it, you'll lose 'hardness.' As with impotence, the key is to just go with the flow and not put yourself under pressure. If you can do that you'll be half way there.

If you're still concerned though there are some other things to bear in mind. Firstly, girls don't love massive 'man bats.' Average sized willies do the trick for most so if your weighing in at 4.5 to 6 inches you'll be OK. If you're not there's still no need to panic because every girl has different statistics as well in terms of depth and how comfortable penetration is for them. Some girls struggle to climax during intercourse and this normally has nothing to do with their partners willy size. At the end of the day if you meet the right girl it will be how big your heart is and not your willy which will win her over.

If this hasn't answered your question BlueArmy and you're still concerned then you can train yourself in other departments. A good lover doesn't just use his willy so work on clitoral stimulation and oral sex - Yakubu might not be a 30 goals a season man but he holds the ball up and feeds other players and that's often what leads to victory. You can also train the muscles that are responsible for keeping yourself hard by becoming erect, straining, holding and relaxing 30 - 40 times a day. Although I wouldn't try this down your local gym.

You also might want to look into your diet and smoking cannabis has been linked with shrinkage of the penis - however both of these things need a little research so check my Tips page out before the end of the month and I'll make sure I've added something a little more in depth. I hope this helps and trust me when I say BlueArmy having a less than large willy really doesn't effect your love life, I've done perfectly fine and my nickname at University was 'Mushroom Dick' for heaven's sake...maybe that's too much information for a Thursday lunch time. Ah well, nevermind.