I am a gay man and I know Ben and he is completely wrong for Anderson. Anderson was in two loving relationships with two wonderful partners. He is obviously mixed up and confused and chose to rebound with this character who has been with half of New York City. I know several guys who have had the misfortune of hooking up with him. He is totally out of Anderson's league, but we all do foolish things to try to get over a broken heart. My partner and I wish you all a happy Thanksgiving. Keep up the positive thoughts that Anderson will get away from this "leech". Love that one, girl! Take care.

What do you think of this?

is this from? DL? cut and pasted from an anonymous post? sure

It looks REALLY phoney to me, and I'm not the person who dismisses everything Ben/AC related (or the person who thinks Ben&AC are destined in the stars either for that matter).

Who is this guy supposed to be? He knows Ben AND he knows AC? He knows AC long enough to know his past relationships and his current relationship but is the type to blab his business and trash his boyfriend on web forums? AC is a cute 42 year old gay man living in New York and this person seems to be implying he's only been in relationships with two partners? One of those guys would have to be AC's ex Steve and despite all the reports he cares very much about Anderson I have never heard anyone describe him as "wonderful" - the consensus has always been he's complicated guy who's struggled with alcoholism and depression. Why would it be a big deal to another gay that Ben has dated around in his life? It's not as though Anderson has been sailing towards his golden anniversary with anyone himself.

Anyone watch? I did, it was inspirational and moving as usual.

AC's introduction of Maxwell was funny.

Is Anderson gay?

Is Carol Stupid?

is supposed to be on live tonight. Tom Foreman anchored the other night instead of Erica. I wonder who'll be sitting in tonight? Certainly not AC.

yep.phoney.

But.

What if there was some truth to it?.

I've said it from the VERY beginning and y'all made fun of me. I was the very first here to say that Ben looked like a strange/no-good type of person and that Anderson latched onto him bc he's either blind, starved for love and affection or vulnerable...you all started yelling at me and accusing me of judging a picture. Well, turns out you can judge a picture. Now y'all are saying the same thing.

So I've been wrong many times here before.

Listen to me again.

Anderson is looking for love, a family and stability. He is with Ben now but Ben is not the right person for him.

Ben is NOT the right person for Anderson. yes they are together.

Any questions?

are not together. Ben has been at his nasty bar for the past few weeks working again. He did not go to LA with Anderson this go round. Ben was spotted yesterday, Thanksgiving Day, out and about with another man not Anderson. If they were a couple they would have definitely spent the holiday together, they didn't! Anderson hasn't been seen all week. So they are NOT together! Can you not see reality?

and so what? I don't always travel with my boyfriend yet it doesn't mean I'm not with him. Anderson can go to LA on his own, doesn't mean Ben is not his boyfriend.

Ben was spotted yesterday, Thanksgiving Day, out and about with another man not Anderson

Good then, Anderson probably broke up with him, better late than never, but they were definitely together at some point...which means Anderson is now ready for me!!! (jk)

whatever you are going through, it will all be ok. Love will come your way, do not doubt. God loves you.

is there a link to this sighting of Ben yesterday?

is there a link to this sighting of Ben yesterday?

I was going to ask the same...

don't really believe they broke up all of a sudden do you?

What's going to happen when they come back from wherever they are and the Twitter sightings start up again with them doing what they always do? I think you all are jumping the gun with the big AC-Ben break up. It actually seems like they're becoming closer. Frankly, I'd rather see him back with Cesar, but I don't see it happening.