It is so easy to fall into speaking and acting in code, as if that by itself would show people who we believe in and why. This is a great way to truly see what is reflected back from someone who doesn't have the decryptor ring. I just wonder if most of us are ready for ourselves? Reading some of the reactions to the posts, I don't think some of us are. I hope Hemant is able to grow through this experience...because I certainly am growing from reading his blog.