That's a very good question & I'm not sure I have the answer. I did loose myself for about two yrs. If it didn't concern my daughter I didn't do it.
  Do you have family close or any additional support system? My advice do something for yourself, NOT including you kids at least once monthly. If it's nothing but getting your hair done. Just something you enjoy. Maybe lunch with friends once a month or something. i know a lot of places have special activities just for SAHM's. Develop a network of other mothers you trust. Playdates are GREAT.
  What type of things do you enjoy? What other than your kids, make you happy?
  TeChundra
  
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