Hello to every woman who has more than 3 children and is sain. I've got 3 boys 8,4 and 2 plus another on the way. I'm not going to say its all that bad cause it's not. I find it a blessing and deffinitely at times overwhelming. I dont have much of a support system of friends or family. I consider myself to be a good mother and friend, but I like to keep it real. I dont have time for bochinche meaning gossip. I do however would love to meet mother's who like to bring their children to the park, beach or have playdates. I go to times square church in manhattan on 51st street and 7th ave, so on sundays I bring my boys to the park downtown in mahattan. I'll be some support if someones willing to be a friend. peace.

Hey everyone I am 7 months pregnant now and I can't believe that I am about to be a mother and responsible for a little person. I have been going through alot recently in my relationship. I know that a truly supportive man during pregnancy is rare, but I would like my man to be somewhat supportive. I accuse him of cheating now a days because we are not having sex, but he claims to have a complex (hes scared to hurt the baby) whatever, I really want to give up but I only have 2 months to go basically and I love him. I just want to know from other moms have they been through the same thing and any advice for me?

Wow Keisha,

    I hope you check back and get this message. Please try to work it out with your man. He may really be scared of hurting the baby. They don't know. Some men may need you to educate them. He can't feel what you feel. Just take control for him. Tell him this is a great bonding experience for the three of you. A supportive man should not be rare, maybe it is though. My husband was there, but he did not rub my feet as much as I wanted him too. He did do the late night creeps to Taco Bell, I was a Chalupa junkie. I also craved Hagen Dazs Vanilla Swiss Almond. But keep trying and keep the black family together.

hello everyone.. i just found out that i am 8 weeks pregnant yesterday, and i am only 16 years old. i am a little bit scared for the baby. already. i have a job, and car but im still in school, and i will only be 17 when the baby will be here. can any one help me try to relax and think positive.. i mean a am a lil bit excited. but i got pregnant and im on birth control and we used a condom. a lot of teens dont take you all seriously. hey, ill never get pregnant. that will never happen to me. but i said the same thing. was 2 hours of pleasure worth 18 years of raising a baby? my sister had her baby when she was 18. and my mom had me when she was 17. but im scared that i wont be a good mom. help me? (unless that is impossible...) thanks to all