This is in response to Tisha: Tisha, I am responding to you for my 56-year old mother who emphatically states,"FIND YOU A BABYSITTER!". What your husband is describing is irritation at having to respond to an innocent's needs. Your baby is not spoiled; he is just needing more attention than either your husband is willing or emotionally capable of giving. You are potentially exposing yourself and your son to a volatile situation as you don't know if your husband may react extremely negatively or possibly dangerously because he is becoming increasingly frustrated in dealing with an infant. I would strongly recommend that you and he enter into Christian parenting classes (or any parenting class) so that he can be educated about babies. Sincerely and with all my love,

Andrea