my co-workers got tired of me being depressed, retrospective, whiney and such and made a yahoo singles profile for me. Despite my best efforts to undermine their scheme, It seems to have worked and I'm dating for the first time in over a year. I guess, my pointless point is that you'll be fine, and when you know you are ready (i mean really KNOW) It'll happen whether you expect it or not. If you try to force it, it'll only make things worse.