Edited by author 07-16-2004 06:16 PM
On the whole, I was deeply confused by the war. I felt it did terrible things to the country from which it did not recover for more than a decade. I came back to Cambridge to find it a very changed place than when I graduated from Harvard College in 1963. I saw the B School go out on strike and went to the rally in Harvard Stadium. At that time Harvard had 12,000 students including the grad schools. Harvard Stadium that afternoon was full
of 20-30,000 people. I always wondered what vocal majority had superseded the will of or at least was purporting to speak for those Cantabridgians who actually were there.
  
A large number of my friends in the class of 1963 at Harvard College went to war. Many chose the Navy as their branch of service and many of them went to the far east. As far as I know, all of them served honorably and
returned with dignity and seem to live productive and contributing lives today. I did not personally know anyone who was killed or wounded, but have subsequently met families whose lives were unalterably changed by the loss of a brother or son who made the ultimate sacrifice.
  
Sadly, I find that those friends of mine who went underground or participated heavily in the counter culture and its promise of Elysium, often had more of a problem re-integrating into post Viet Nam America when they found their Elysium did not exist, than we who served. Of those who went into the drug culture, many are still today just as much permanent casualties as those who were seriously wounded in Viet Nam itself.
  
On the other hand, with the current situation in Iraq, one
interesting legacy of Viet Nam may be that we are so exhausted by or unwilling to re-live those times that we as a nation are now also unwilling to take a stand when such a stand may be more justified than it was then. Who knows?
  
Two generations ago our grandfathers struggled to raise their children in the greatest depression; our parents produced us while they lived and died in the greatest of wars and we began having children during an unpopular
war in which our nation suffered a its first defeat on the battle field and a major upheaval at home. What will our children and their children face and have we done enough to prepare them? The answer to that will be the true test
of whether we have succeeded or failed.