Frank, I'm very sorry to hear of your troubles. Believe me, as I am an
additional victim of my wife's illness, I know what you have gone through.
Every morning for years when my wife and I arrive in a common area of the
house (we live on seperate ends of a ranch house) she says: "You couldn't be my husband; not in a million years." In her mind, her husband is a great guy and I, the imposter, am a terrible animal.
I wish I could give some good advice. The truth is that they know very
little about the mind. There is no help that I can give, except "grin and
bear it." Accept it for what it is and throw away any hope that there is
something that can be done. It won't happen, at least I feel it won't, not in our lifetimes, if ever.
I do believe, however, that Capgras is a syndrome of other mental illnesses and is not a delusion. My wife was diagnosed with Schizo Affective Disorder. She has been through all the medicines and, currently, is without medicine.
She seems to have adapted a lot and can get along by herself with minimal
help. She drives, cleans the house, shops, cooks, reads but she lives in
another world.
How old are you?
Where do you live?
Sheldon (Shelly) Waxman, J.D.
http://www.thelawyer.infoIC Specialist
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I am the son of a mother who has capgras. I read your note in the quick
notes. It has been 12 years of agony for us. Do you have any good advise. It seems that it is a very rare condition and i am looking for anyone who can shed some light for me because the psychiotrists we are worthless
thanks, Frank