Edited by author 02-15-2004 06:10 PM
So it wasn't just me! When I lived in San Francisco from July 1996 to April 2000, it was hard as HELL to meet compatible singles. First, when you work a day job that eats up more than half your day (including commute time on the freeway), I didn't feel like going out -- a BIG Friday night for me in SF was going to get Thai and a video. Big Whoop! I did try this Sport and Social Club and played soccer on a team, but people were so self-conscious and many were there to be in their circle of friends they had prior to joining the team and league that it too was a worthless track for meeting someone. Did someone say "no love life" -- that was me back then. Fall of '99 however, I did meet someone via Match.com but we didn't have much in common, so the sex seemed pretty empty. We parted ways right before I moved to L.A in May 2000.

Good luck Bonnie with the Dating Life. Volunteer somewhere -- seriously, I think it might work. I met my fiance here in L.A. at a business mixer and we're very much in love -- and we're getting married in July. But what the hell do I know? *shrugs*.