I just read the 'dating requirements' woman's website...she seems like she'd be rather exhausting to be with. In my experience, that sense of over-saturated self-importance or self-justification which she seems to have smacks of desperate insecurity. Every semi-intelligent/creative person goes through any number of existential crises, which, while being "unique" in terms of the general populace, are quite common among this group. The difference between, say, her and me is that I don't reveal mine to total strangers on the internet as some sort of method of validation.