Funny how a Brit can describe getting dragged out of a pool of his own vomit & off to jail ... and it sounds so dignified ! Seriously, I admire (am jealous of) their ability to use the language so well.
Would it make for better communication in a personal relationship ? Well ... it would still be something nice to listen to - no more or less than a face you like or a mannerism ... just one of the little things.
I hear a lot of people say they like it... can't think of one who said they DIDN'T !
If you are looking for a blue car, why get a white one & then try to paint it ?
Bonnie ! Make a list of the things you like & don't - when you meet someone you are attracted to, take him down with a leg-sweep. Then, heel on his neck, run your finger down the list. (Taking him down is mainly to judge if you'll be able to get to the fish & chips first when you are married.)
If he doesn't fit ... remember ... you will NEVER change him.
Well, we can be trained, but there are limits ;)
Remember though, no matter how WELL he fits, if you can't take him down ... well, you have to think of priorities, you know...
I say ... go on vacation !