after reading Nancy Mairs' "Carnal Acts," i was floored by her ability to describe these things in such an uncensored, raw, and descriptive way. this story was amazing to me. through her story, i developed a deep sense of gratitude that i am fuctional, that i have two eyes, ten toes and fingers and can walk and pee correctly. i honestly cannot imagine such inner struggle. but nancy mairs is such a voice of strength and inspiration. this isnt to say that this piece is particularly uplifting, but it is real and thats what women need to start doing- being real, being honest, and neglecting societal views of shame and guilt, no apologies and no disclaimers.