I have actually begun my New Year asking myself this very same question...
Voxpop u have a point...i may sound bitchy and judemental..but I think it is safer to assume that everyone sux...then u'll be happy when u meet those(the few among us) who prove u wrong.

it hurts me worse to find out someone I expected to be cool is um! NOT as cool as i expected...rather than finding out someone i thought was a loser is actually cool as hell...