Hey Bonnie it's good to see you're blogging again. I missed it. Don't hate me because I'm married and happy. It took Brian and I more than 10 years to get where we are today. Remember that other clod I was dating when we were roommies? I thought I loved him. We all do stupid things in the name of 'love', don't beat yourself up. The real challenge is recognizing selfless, bouying, honest, self-bettering love, which is as rare as a Hawaiian Crow (three pairs left in the world. Yes I am a bird geek.). Chin up sport. Life is good with or without a man in your life.