I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! Your kitty loves you and knows that you were the one who ALWAYS loved him!
It's very hard to lose our little ones we love so much, just know that you were a blessing to Kitty Puss and he is waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge! Keep loving the doggies, they know you miss the kitty and they love you too!
Keep working through your grief, it will get easier!
God bless!
Sheri :)

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I am thankful for this site. I found Kitty Puss in 2007, he was a tiny kitten almost dead, where someone had thrown him out in a cardboard box. I nursed him to health, but it took about 6 months before he was really able to "be a real cat"! He became the dearest kitty to me. In May of this year, we don't know what happened to him while we were away for a couple of hours. We normally put him in the house when we would go somewhere, but didn't that day. When we came home, we found him limping really bad, so we took him to the vet. His left front leg was broken in 3 places and had to be amputated. He survived very well and acted like he never lost a leg! He was a beautiful tabby, very playful and mischievous. He always liked to go out a little while every night, then I would go outside and call him, he would come and be in for the night. Well, Wednesday night 2 weeks ago, he didn't come. I don't know what has happened to him, but I am sick with grief and sorrow. I have cried all day everyday since he's been gone. I never should have let him out that night, I feel so guilty. I have done everything I know to do to try to find him, but no luck. I keep praying I will open my door and he will be there. But if he never returns to me here on Earth, I do believe he is in Heaven. Andn I know he still loves me and has forgiven me. It is hard to forgive myself, though. Please pray for me, that some of this sadness and guilt will go away. I have dogs that are precious to me, but I am not being fair to them because I am grieving so for my kitty. Thank you.

Read the Rainbow Bridge and share with your daughter! It's so hard, losing family!!! Keep grieving and it will get easier! God bless!

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From: QT - Kathy [1]
Sent: Thu 10/23/2008 11:02 PM
To: QT topic subscribers
Subject: Pets



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My daughter had a dog named Ty only 9 months but she loved that dog and he got hit by a car yesterday. We cried all night. She said, "but he was my best friend". He was a great dog and I want to be able to comfort her more in these tough days that lie ahead. It is so sad. My daughter is 19 and she is really struggling. We pray togetherbut it is still very hard.

I'm sorry you lost your kitty! I know the comfort of that furry friend ALWAYS there with you! I know you've heard of the Rainbow Bridge and your baby is there, happily waiting for you to join them. The grieving will come and go, probably forever, and that's okay. Just keep exploring your feeling through this web site and others, talking with friends, and sharing your feelings and soon the pain will be more bearable! I lost my 18 year old Persian, Precious, about two years ago! She was the love of my life for those 18 years. I have another kitty, Sparkles, who comforted me during those saddest of days. I love them both. Then last Christmas I got.......a DOG!!! Boy has it been a change, but they continue to be most important in my life. After some time has passed, I think you should consider getting another pet! They will never take the place of this lost kitty, but they can make life happier! Take care and God bless!
Sheri :)

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From: QT - gynger52 [1] Sent: Mon 9/8/2008 9:09 PM
To: QT topic subscribers
Subject: Pets



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Hi there. I lost my cat on June 14th of this year very suddenly after a long bout with kidney disease. He was the closest I've ever come to having children and I've never felt such a strong connection with another living being. As the months roll by, I find the pain so unbearable at times and at other times, I'm totally comforted by knowing that he's still with me. Tonight is one of those unbearable times...Just the thought of never being able to have him physically with me again breaks my heart. I miss his fur, his gorgeous green eyes, his sounds, the feel of him on my lap, his kisses, and even his smell. He was the most amazing cat and when I was sad, he would let me hold him for hours and sob into his fur. I don't know where to cry now...

I'm so sorry for all of you who know what I'm feeling. Thank you for being an outlet, and I'll pray for you all and your lost loved ones.

I'm sorry for your pain...it's a pain you must feel to get over!!! It will get easier! Keep talking and we'll keep praying for you!!!
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Tonite I am alone as my husband is at a meeting. I miss Elvis so much as we would cuddle in a chair and keep each other company. I feel guilty because I know people who have lost dear members of their family, but I cannot stop the pain I feel. I know in my mind he is at peace and not suffering, I just have to give myself more time. Thanks for listening.

I'm sorry to hear of the loss! As pet owners, we all do our best to keep them healthy, fit, and happy. Hindsight is always better! Let go of the guilt, Cantrell was a happy doggy that knew you all loved him...which is most important! Keep in touch with this site as it helps you through the grieving process!!! Cantrell is at the Rainbow Bridge happily waiting for you!
God bless!

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Elvis!!! It is very hard to lose the ones that completely depend on us for love and survival while they return love, care, and concern! Things will get easier but you will have to suffer through the grief. Elvis is in a better place, the Rainbow Bridge, playing and waiting for you! Stay with this site, it truly helps through the grieving process!

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Thank you SpiritSong, your words are so kind. I know in my mind that Elvis was to sick to live, but in my heart I still want him with me.I am better today, just extremely sad. Thankyou for listening and understanding me. He gave so much joy to all of us, and I need to focus on the good times. I have such a love of animals, I'm pretty sure I will have another little one to share that love .

Wow...what a string of tragedy! I'm not surprised that you can't stop crying. While it is certainly normal to cry that much the day after a sudden loss of a beloved pet, I'm guessing your other family losses are piled onto that as well.

There's nothing easy about it. It might help to think about Elvis being welcomed by your sister and neice, as I believe he is, and to realize that his spirit is there with you still as you crawl into bed, wishing he could provide some comfort. It's not quite the same as having a physical body to hold, but I'm convinced he's there.

I always encourage people to have some kind of small ritual to recognize the loss. To burn a candle, representing the pet's spiritual presence, and to gather with others and tell the stories about his/her life. It's part of the important grieving process for people and there's no reason why it should be for pets as well. Depending on your religious bent you could say a prayer, thanking God for the joy and comfort Elvis brought to you and giving him back into the care of God. And for the ability to love, even though it hurts when they leave this life.

Do keep a watch on yourself over these next few months. You will always miss Elvis, even if you eventually get another dog, but if you can't get back to functioning the way you want in the coming weeks, it could be an indicator that there are still things about the deaths of your sister and neice that need to be worked through. That happens a lot when you have a string of losses as you have suffered.

And remember that I and others on this site are praying for you and Cory and all who post here. The loss is real and deep.

I lost my beloved dog Elvis yesterday after a sudden illness. I was not prepared and am totally devastated! Elvis was there for me when my sister died of breast cancer in Feb. My neice died in March and Elvis gave me so much comfort. I can't seem to stop crying and my heart is so broken. I am trying to be strong for my family, but it is so hard! He was the best Beagle and loved us so much! I can't sleep without him next to me!

Thanks SpiritSong, your words mean a lot. I am not dealing with it very well at all, especially compared to those around me. I have lost people close to me & this is as hard, if not harder. I have a lot of family & friend support, but most of them are heartbroken as well. He worked his way into everybody's heart he met. I would like to thank this site - it is helpful to hear what others going through. I would also commend www.pet-loss.net. Hearing what others have gone through & say is helping me. Any input anyone has is appreciated.