This message is for David J.
Sorry to be so harsh, but this has to be said-- get over it. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, now everyone probably thinks I'm a rotton person, but it's true. If you don't have a girlfriend, do something about it. Be a romantic. Sweep 'em off their feet. :)
Having a girlfriend or boyfriend is not everything in life, trust me, I know. There are better things out there for all of you who are going through breakups. Just remember-- you define your own life, not your boyfriend or girlfriend. Hugs to all who need one,
                   KeepTheFaith