Grrls are so all about feelings and stuff. Anyways, I think that most friendships have an expiration date. They're with you for a certain period of your life then they move on as you both grow and mature (hopefully). You've said you're sorry now it's probably time you moved on. Live a good life then bump into them at a seniors dance hall (in my case, an asylum) later on and embellish your misadventures... Happy thoughts! Long live Grrl Radio!

I agree with Bonnie. Although it's interesting that this discussion seems to be the one and only Google result for "a shrine of Jen with glitter and candles in my closet" ;).

Edited by author 08-24-2002 01:56 PM
Dom,

I don't consider it stalking since Jen and I used to be best firends and I messed up our friendship by being selfish and I want to make amends for my mistakes.

It's not like I have a shrine of Jen with glitter and candles in my closet.

This is borderline stalking isn't it?

Thank for all your help, Karan!

Edited by author 08-18-2002 05:14 PM
Hello Bonnie. Call Becky Hannon - who has information about the BofA collection that was housed at that gallery. Her number is: (704)388-3104. I'm guessing she'll be a good resource. If that doesn't work out call that BofA branch in Seattle. (206) 358-7807 Just ask about your friend, they just might be able to help...folks in Seattle are oh so friendly. Also, give a quick check at other galleries in the Seattle area because there are lots of them in Seattle. Good luck,
Karan
Flummel, Flummer, Flummo

I'd love to Corona, but unfortunately the gallery she worked at closed in March.

Good luck, Bonnie; I hope it works out.

maybe you could call or contact the actual gallery somehow?
they might be able to at least pass on a message to her...or get the address of the gallery and send her some kind of phreaky home-made apology kit!

thanks for all your suggestions! After some quick research from my friend Anne, I think I managed to find her correct email address. I sent off an email begging for forgiveness, so hopefully she'll write back and I can rebuild our friendship.

I found a lot of my old friends from high school on classmates.com . I know this sounds like a commercial for them, but I just did a quick search and there are 354 Jennifer Mills listed. If you know what schools she went to and what year she graduated you could get lucky and find her there. Good luck.

I know how you feel, I´benn triyng to found a friend but it looks like she changede her e mail, so I´m lost and don´t know what to do, the biggest problem is tha she lives in the states, an I live in Chile south america. Anyway I´m still looking for her because I´m getting married in January and it will be so nice if she could be here. So good luck for you and me.

Edited by author 08-15-2002 03:38 PM
What if you submitted a piece of artwork to her art gallery. It could be a collage of old photos of you two and a note of apology. Just a thought.

when i wanted to find another old friend of mine i actually called his mother. it was an extremely humbling experience. but that is assuming her parents still live in the same town, or you know her family.

the only other attempt i made to find someone was to find my best friend from high school. i typed in his name into google, much like you did, and found...well. his name is "brishen welsh"...try it for kicks and see what you find. needless to say i didn't look any more for him.

i hope you find her!!!!

any advice for me on tracking down an old pal?