The issue of men crying. Well My father is Europen and I am not saying all European countries are like this, but my father was raised never to show any emotion. If your spouse, child or parent dies you aren't supoosed to show emotion to anyone. You are to deal with your problems alone. When my father cam to America in the late 1960s there was the Revolution going on. He got in touch with his emotinal side. Now my father cries when it hurts, when he is happy, at movies and what not. He is no less and no more a man for doing so. Is a woman less of a woman if she keeps her emotions in?